About Silah Cards
What Does Silah Mean?
In Arabic, Silah (صلة) means a connection, bond, and link and that meaning is at the heart of everything we create.
We chose this name because we believe human connections should be as purposeful as our prayers. In a world of rushed first impressions, Silah helps you move beyond "small talk" to the meaningful conversations that define a lifetime.
By approaching a new connection with the right intentions, seeking compatibility becomes more than just a meeting, it can become a beautiful act of worship.
What Does Ta'aruf Mean?
The term Taʿaruf (تعارف) comes from the Arabic root ʿarafa, "to know, to recognise." Taʿaruf is the sincere, respectful process of truly knowing one another, with Allah at the centre of every interaction.
What Are Silah Cards?
Silah Cards are guided Ta'aruf conversation cards designed to help single Muslims ask meaningful questions and gain clarity before Nikah. They focus on intention, character, values, and long-term compatibility.
Who is the Marriage Prep Kit for?
The Marriage Prep Kit is for single Muslims who want to approach marriage with intention, clarity, and faith. Whether you are just beginning to think about marriage or are already getting to know someone.
What is included in the Marriage Prep Kit?
The Kit includes the Ta'aruf Conversation Cards and a Reflective Journal designed to support intentional preparation for Nikah through guided prompts, Islamic insights and personal reflection.
What topics are covered in the Marriage Prep Kit?
The cards and kit cover essential areas including:
- Intention and readiness for marriage
- Faith, values, and personal character
- Communication styles and emotional maturity
- Family expectations and boundaries
- Conflict resolution and decision-making
- Roles, responsibilities, and lifestyle compatibility
- Long-term goals and growth in marriage
How are the Silah Cards different from generic relationship cards?
The Silah Cards are grounded in Islamic values and crafted for Muslim marriage preparation, stressing faith, intention, and long-term compatibility rather than dating or entertainment. They offer Islamic insights on positive and warning signs, assisting individuals in identifying traits to seek and be wary of in a potential spouse.
How To Use
Is this kit suitable for both men and women?
Definitely! The Marriage Prep Kit is crafted for all single Muslims preparing for marriage or for sparking insightful conversations about marriage with friends.
How do I use the cards?
Use the cards during intentional conversations with a potential spouse, either in person or remotely. Choose a card, ask the question, and allow space for an honest response. After the conversation, review the scoring guide on the back of the card to help you interpret the answer, identify red or green flags, and assess alignment objectively. You can then record your reflections in the journal to track patterns and gain clarity before moving forward.
Can I use the cards on my own?
Yes. You can use the cards individually for self-reflection or journaling to help you clarify values, boundaries, and intentions so you know what you want.
How do I use the Reflective Journal?
Use the journal to reflect on your marriage conversations, personal values, and readiness for marriage. After discussing each topic or question, write down your thoughts, feelings, and insights. Note patterns, red flags, and green flags, and assess whether your needs and non-negotiables are being met. The journal helps you track your reflections over time, gain clarity, and make confident, informed decisions before nikah.
Can this be used if I am already speaking to someone?
Yes. Many people use the kit when getting to know someone to structure conversations and gain clarity before making decisions.
Will this help me feel more confident in my decision?
The purpose of the Marriage Prep Kit is to reduce confusion, encourage reflection, and help you make decisions with clarity, intention, and reliance on Allah.
Shipping, Payment & Product FAQs
What is your Return Policy?
We want you to be completely satisfied with your purchase. Due to the personal nature of the Marriage Prep Kit, our refund and returns policy lasts 7 days from the day of receiving your order. If 7 days have passed since you receiving your order, we can’t offer you a full refund or exchange.
To be eligible for a return, your item must be unused and in the same condition that you received it. It must also be in the original packaging.
Can I Cancel My Order?
Orders can only be cancelled before they are shipped. Please contact us immediately if you need to cancel.
How Long Does Shipping Take?
Orders are processed within 1–3 business days. Delivery times may vary depending on your location. Tracking information will be provided once your order ships.
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